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Hollywood has a nasty habit: typecasting. Once you’ve played “quirky best friend” or “action hero #7,” that’s all directors see you as. We all get typecast. Not just in movies. At work. You’ve grown. You’ve leveled up. You’ve taken on more risk, more scope, more strategy. “He’s the solid one.” Sound familiar? Why this happens more often than notCognitive psychology explains this one: once someone builds a mental model of who you are, their brain resists updating it. Translation: even if your skills evolve, your colleagues’ perception of you doesn’t, because their brain is actively filtering out anything that contradicts the “old you.” So, just like an actor has to shock the audience to get a new role, you have to deliberately reintroduce yourself at work. How to reintroduce yourself: work edition
Reminder that you are not the version of yourself they remember. You’re the one they haven’t met yet. P.S. this isn’t for everyoneSome people are happy being who they are and that’s perfectly fine. But if it is for you, here’s a final thought.Actors don’t break typecasting by accident. They do it by taking risks that make people see them differently. It’s the same at work. If you don’t reintroduce yourself, people will keep booking you for the same role and that too, long after you’ve outgrown it. 👉 If you’re ready to stop being typecast and start being recognized for the leader you are now - reintroduce yourself with the scripts above. And if you need more, let’s talk. My best, always, Shar |
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