There is a moment in every leadership journey that no one warns you about. Not the promotion. Not the bigger title. Not the team growth. It is the moment someone who used to manage you now wants to work for you. That is where Mira found herself. A new opportunity opened, she was stepping into a bigger role, and suddenly her former manager, Elin, reached out. Warm. Supportive. Genuinely excited. "I would love to work with you again," she said. On paper it looked ideal. In Mira's stomach it...
9 days ago â˘Â 2 min read
You finally delegate something .... but then it boomerangs back.Half-finished. Kind of right. Needs more work. And kills the time you thought you saved. Thatâs when most leaders quietly mutter the words that kill growth: âItâs faster if I just do it myself.â The "delegation" trap When Al, a leader I coach, took on a bigger team, he promised himself heâd stop doing everything.âLead more, do less,â he told me. Annnd it lasted about a week. Soon his calendar was an hour-by-hour obstacle...
17 days ago â˘Â 1 min read
Most career conversations are awkward, uninspiring, and end with vague promises nobody remembers. Weâve all been there ... sitting across from a well-meaning leader as they ask: âSo, where do you see yourself in five years?â Eye roll. Most people donât know where theyâll be in five months, let alone five years. And even if they do know, theyâre not about to say it in case it doesnât line up with what the company wants to hear. That question is outdated. Itâs lazy. And it kills energy instead...
24 days ago â˘Â 2 min read
Most career coaching conversations start the same way: đ âI want more.âMore recognition.A better title. Better pay. A promotion that finally matches the effort. But hereâs the twist: when I ask, âWhat about the invisible promotion youâve already given yourself?â ⌠I usually get crickets. Because hereâs the truth: before you ever get the official title, you have to live into the invisible one. You have to be playing the part before you get the part. Itâs the audition before the casting. The...
about 1 month ago â˘Â 2 min read
You want: bigger thinking fresh ideas your team to unlock that untapped creative edge Thereâs just one thing standing in the way: your need for a plan. Because creativity and control donât hold hands. You canât chase originality while demanding guarantees. You canât build something bold while clinging to whatâs proven. One leader I recently coached nailed it in a single line: âIf Iâm trying to be original, I have to stop trying to be right.â BINGO. Your brain loves certainty (even when it's...
about 1 month ago â˘Â 1 min read
Loneliness has a sound.Itâs not silence. Itâs the echo. You speak, but no one answers back.You build, but no oneâs built it before.You lead, but no oneâs walked ahead. Thatâs what it feels like to be first.Not just first as a founder, but first in your family, first in your role, first to stitch together something no one else has made before. And hereâs the kicker: science says your brain knows it, too. Loneliness doesnât just feel heavy, it registers in the body as real pain. MRI studies...
about 2 months ago â˘Â 2 min read
Youâre not failing. But youâre not fired up either. Your calendarâs packed. Your teamâs steady. Youâre respected, maybe even envied from the outside. And yet, something feels⌠beige. A little too smooth. A little too still. Like a pond with no ripples. Hereâs whatâs happening: youâre not in crisis but youâre also not in creation. Are you a thermostat, or a thermometer? Most leaders end up in what psychologists call "default mode" - the mental state our brains enter when we're not focused on...
about 2 months ago â˘Â 2 min read
Hollywood has a nasty habit: typecasting. Once youâve played âquirky best friendâ or âaction hero #7,â thatâs all directors see you as.Itâs why Bryan Cranston spent years as the goofy dad in Malcolm in the Middle before shocking everyone as Walter White.Or why nobody saw Heath Ledgerâs Joker coming - because in their heads, he was still the sweet guy from 10 Things I Hate About You. We all get typecast. Not just in movies. At work. Youâve grown. Youâve leveled up. Youâve taken on more risk,...
2 months ago â˘Â 1 min read
Iâve got a client whoâs incredible under pressure. Heâll admit it, too. He doesnât move until a deadline is bearing down like a freight train. Then? Boom. Focus. Decisions. Execution. A hero in the final hour. Sound familiar? Heâs not lazy. Heâs addicted to urgency. And honestly? It works. Think about every action movie ever. The hero doesnât save the day three weeks in advance. They dismantle the bomb at 00:01. They cross the finish line just in time. Thatâs the drama. Thatâs the win. And...
2 months ago â˘Â 2 min read